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Mentorship · Private work

Remember who you are.

Close, private work for individuals and couples ready to meet their power, their eros, and their grief without flinching. Paced to you, online or in person, for as long as it serves.

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1:1 Mentorship

I hold you in presence, ruthless love, and clear seeing as you remember who you are and stop hiding the size of you. We work with whatever is alive: attachment, shadow, eros, grief, purpose.

Online & in personOngoing or fixed term
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Relationships & Sexuality as Initiation

Your relationships and your sexuality are not separate from your spiritual life. They are the path. We work toward sovereign interdependence over codependence, and eros as a living intelligence with something to teach you. For couples, this deepens in 'Till Death, with Jen.

Individuals & couples'Till Death
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Heal Your Relationship to the Masculine

A journey for women toward wholeness and devotional partnership. Together we go into the places where men and masculinity wounded you, and we don't leave them there. We burn down the old story, rebuild trust in the body, and make room for the partnership you actually want.

For women2–12 month commitment
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Men's Work

Private mentorship for men ready to put down the armor of self-sufficiency and finally be met: grief, rage, hunger, and tenderness all welcome. I'm co-founder of Emergence Brotherhood, and this 1:1 work is its close, personal complement.

For men1:1 & brotherhood
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Guided Journeys & Integration

For those drawn to meet themselves in non-ordinary states of consciousness. I offer preparation, ceremonial holding, and the slower, essential work of integration, so that what opens in the journey actually takes root in your life. The journeys I facilitate are breath- and body-based, and fully legal. Where sacred medicines are part of your own path, this is mentorship and integration support only, offered where legal. I never provide, source, or administer any substance.

Preparation & integrationWhere legal
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Let's see if we're a fit.

Shaped to you. There is no program to slot into. Sliding scale, online or in person.

From late July to early September I am in Gabon, apprenticing in the Bwiti tradition. Conversations begin on my return.